Hello! I hope someone here who speaks English will help me. I know some other Americans have posted here and have appreciated your input.
I'm in the USA, and my son is 17 months old and about 15.7 kg (just under 35 pounds). The rear-facing seats here go up only to ~15.8 kg (35 lbs), but I worry about turning him forward facing so young!
I have a person in Sweden who will buy me a seat and send it to the US, but I have to decide which one. It's illegal for me to use, but I've decided better safe than legal.
The seats I'm deciding between are the Britax Hi-Way, Multi-Tech, and Two-Way Elite. I'm leaning toward the Hi-Way, but would love recommendations.
Here are my reasons why:
1. Hi-Way looks more like a RF American seat so will be less obvious to the police. I'm worried about getting in trouble! Can be used from 0 kg on up, so we can use it with a second child. It's shorter than the other seats, which isn't as good. I like the foot prop and that it doesn't have to lean against a seat in front of it. I've heard it installs more easily than the others.
2. Multi-Tech is more expensive, and we're poor.

I know it has a higher seat back, but I've heard the head rest gets in the way of the shoulders at higher heights? But, truly, the price is the big obstacle with this one, since we already have to pay shipping + customs.
3. Two-Way Elite looks more like an American FF seat, so I worry it will stand out as being foreign when turned RF. Higher seat height means we might be able to use it longer RF. Uglier colors. (ha ha! I love the Marcel green of the Hi-Way!)
Our son is also tall (~87.6 cm) and has a long torso. But I think he could make it till at least 4 years old in the Hi-Way. Since most Americans turn their kids FF at 1 year old, that sounds amazing to me! I don't mind buying him a new FF seat or booster at that point and passing on the old RF one to a younger sibling (if we have a second child).
I see that a lot of people love the Multi-Tech and Two-Way. Is there a reason not to love the Hi-Way??
We have a 1997 Ford Escort, which is a small four-door car with shallow back seats. I wanted to put the seat in the middle if possible (our car doesn't have good side-impact protection), where there's only a lap belt.
Thanks so much in advance for your help!! Since I don't speak Norwegian, I've been trying to make do reading your forum using Google Translator, but it's not very good. (Try it sometime, and be amused!) I finally decided just to post and trust that someone can help me out. Thank you!!